still not working bluetooth standalone [solved]

this is a following up of the previous post…
xbee drivers are installed, it shows up in device manager as USB serial port (COM5), the skecth compile fine, no errors since i’ve found i had to change a couples of things in the code, but, when i hit upload button, after compiling arduino halt and the error says:

"avrdude: stk500_getsync():not in sync: resp=0x00"

x-ctu cannot read information from xbee as proposed in this page:

i am using arduino 1.0.4
grove - xbee carrier
windows 7 64 bits
bluetooth standalone

any help would be wonderful

i got the answer for a post in the forum, thanks a lot in advance and sorry for bothering